A REAL MAN
This one is for all the Ladies out there!
A friend of mine posted a bulletin the other day and this is what it said:
A “Real Man” knows what he wants and goes after it with great determination!
My response to that was:
This is TRUE!! Problem is that, when it’s the Money you women get angry, upset, and jealous. Funny thing is that you all want a man with $$$… Figure that one out!
In my late teens and early 20’s I was chasing the women. I was quite good at it if I may say so myself ( Casanova is what they called me - a little ego there…lol ). What I learned very quickly though was that you women wanted a man with some MONEY, SCRATCH, DINERO, CHEESE, FEDIA, or also referred to as BENJAMINS!! I had no problem meeting the girls, the women, the ladies and divas. I even ran across a few B!t(#es in my days. My issue was lack of funds. You see, I didn’t have a luxury car, designer clothes & shoes, expensive watches, or any other material possessions that said I was “BALLIN”. So I had to work really hard and sharpen my skill level to “COMPETE” in the olympics of dating. I was also shorter than the average guy, so the 6′5″ guys always got the play. I guess the women all thought he was a Pro-Basketball player, he gots to be paid!
That didn’t deter me though, I smelled CHALLENGE. I turned my body into a masterpiece. Physically, I was and still am irresistible. Back then though I was broke. I had no problem captivating the women, but that was afar as I got. When it was time to go out, we did “creative” (romantic) things, if you know what I mean. Long walks on the beach, bike rides through the city, picnics in the park..etc! All that sounds romantic and I am quite sure you ladies enjoy that. But there comes a time when you want to hit Rodeo Drive to shop at Gucci, Prada, Ferragamo, Versace, and all the little boutiques down there, then top off the night by going to Crustaceans in Beverly Hills, valeting the Benz, BMW, Range, Ferrari, or whatever your preference of luxury/exotic car is, and eat a $500 meal!
Everybody wants that “Julia Roberts - Pretty Woman” experience!!!
Problem is that no one wants to go through what it takes to get it. Kinda like everyone wants to go to heaven, but no one wants to die…
Ok, where is this going, what is it leading to? For the last 6 or 7 years I have shifted my focus. Instead of chasing women, I have been chasing da BENJAMINS (money that is..watch yo-self, I don’t roll like that). Funny thing is that everytime I meet a woman, they tell me, “you work too much”! Crazy thing about it is that my hard work is what made me attractive. It was hard work getting that body in my 20’s, I spent a lot of time in the gym. Now I just take supplements (Yor Health www.yor.com/health. Use quadrant2 as sponsor) to keep it right keep it tight. That’s a whole other story I will share with you all later.
Now my focus is on the money, securing my financial future.. I should have listened to Al Pacino in Scarface. He said, “First you get the money, then you get the power, then you get the gurl”! He was right.. The way I see it is, the money makes you powerful, and the powerful man is an aphrodisiac to women. So once you got the money, you ain’t got no problem getting the girl..Right ladies? I know you I.N.D.E.P.E.N.D.E.N.T. women out there are saying, “I don’t need a man”, but the TRUTH is the TRUTH. A powerful man is still exhilarating and heart stopping to you ladies. You may not understand it or even be able to explain it. It is what it is!
So ladies could yall please make up your minds. Do you want a man who doesn’t care about his finances and will spend “ALL HIS TIME” with you? Or do you want a man who is willing to work hard at making that money so he can secure your financial future and have some fun while in the pursuit of happiness? Which one you want? If you have chosen the latter, then you gotta be willing to support him in his efforts and be willing to cut him some slack in the interim of making his paypa…!! You know there is another option as well. You could get involved in his world of making money, spend more time with him, and make the money together! Who knows you might learn something and one day become I.N.D.E.P.E.N.D.E.N.T.!
Posted: September 30th, 2008 under Lifestyle.
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